Friendzoning.

I can't tell you guys how sick and tired I am of hearing people complain about being "friendzoned".  It's absolute crap.  

Basically, people complaining that this exists don't understand friendship, nor do they understand how the real world works.  

There is no such thing as friendzoning.  Dudes that say that has happened to them have treated a woman nicely in hopes for sex later on.  That's not real friendship, that's not the kind of person a woman wants to be with.  You can't put X amount of niceness in and expect X amount of sex in return.  That's not the real world.  That's called being a giant douchy dick.  

Women can be friends with men and vice versa.  Shouldn't it be able to be that way?  I have plenty of guy friends, and even before I was married, none of them disrespected me or any of my other gal friends like this.  

Think you've been friendzoned?  Take a look in the mirror and tell yourself to grow up and be a man.  If a girl doesn't want to be with you, maybe you need to reevaluate the relationship, or keep being her friend, or both and find someone else to be interested in.  Not every girl wants you, even if you're nice to her.  

That's life.

/endrant